They had no idea how much their visit meant and that they “made my day.” We talked about real things, not the weather. They had suffered a significant loss this year and we all talked about how much we all missed her. She asked kindly about my struggles. I knew I could share, or not, and they would be ok with either way the conversation went. We didn’t pray but we talked about prayer. We talked about how God is working in our lives, today, yesterday and recently. We all agreed that God was good. He shared about how he asks God to be a blessing to someone each day and the marvelous “divine encounters” he has experienced. She talked about a great message she had heard, but did so after she had evidenced how much she cared for me. Listening to her was like drinking in cool water after being out in the hot sun all day without a drink. Her words soothed my soul because she talked about Jesus and encouraged me. It was real fellowship, the way it is supposed to be. They had no idea how much they encouraged me. They came as friends, but truly, they are ministers.
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In the quietness of this morning I consider a new day and the contents of my daytimer. It is time to increase my time of prayer. Oh Lord, how I need You!
There is some time scheduled in a doctor’s office with someone I love. Lord I pray for the decrease of anxiety, for peace and the flowering of faith and trust in You. There are some errands to be ran, and some necessary shopping. Lord, for the divine encounters in the ordinary passages of life, may You prepare my heart. Help me not to be so focused on the incidentals that I miss the big picture. Thank you Lord for providing for us in this season of change. May I be thankful.
There is some art work to be done today. Thank you God for the joy in this – for it is in creating that I catch a glimpse of the You, the Great Creator and the obvious delight You took in creating us! Today there is ministry for someone that needs Your healing touch. Lord, I pray for Your direction, Your mercies, Your guidance, and for Your Word to speak powerfully to my heart, even as I speak and listen.
Lord, where I have been preoccupied, where I have totally missed Your plan in the moment or the people You have put before me, where I have missed an opportunity to speak as You would have spoken, or just plain failed miserably, please forgive me. This is a brand new day, Lord. In the many things that are before me, help me not to forget that this is the day which You have made, may I rejoice and be glad in it. Through Christ our Lord, Amen.
Some of God’s greatest blessings may be in unanswered prayers. That may not be theologically correct…exactly. Unanswered prayer is what we are feeling sometimes, not the reality of what is happening in the heavenlies. There are many Biblical references that substantiate that God hears every prayer and knows every intent and motive in our hearts. It’s just that when we do not experience any outward sign of our petition that we think that perhaps God did not hear. But because He loves us in a deeper way than we can comprehend, sometimes He holds back. It is restrained grace.
Sometimes our prayers are focused on the surface – changes that we believe would make our lives go on a little easier. The requests no doubt line up with God’s will. We pray for people in our lives and the choices made that cause them harm, ourselves included. But sometimes it is in the waiting, the longing, even the suffering that His restrained grace has it’s full effect.
The Apostle Paul, when going through a troubling time wrote these words:
We think you ought to know, dear brothers and sisters, about the trouble we went through in the province of Asia. We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability to endure, and we thought we would never live through it. In fact we expected to die. But as a result, we stopped relying on ourselves, and learned to rely only on God…We placed our confidence in Him, and He will continue to rescue us. II Corinthians 1:8-9a,10b
Our lives are messy. God is not any less loving than the parent or grandparent that steps back and allows the learning to take place, knowing it is for our ultimate good. God’s plans and purposes are so much deeper than ours, and His restrained grace is always full of meaning and care.
In Psalm 77 the writer lamented:
When I was in deep trouble, I searched for the Lord. All night long I prayed, with hands lifted toward heaven, but my soul was not comforted.”
But later in the Psalm when the writer regained his composure and insight he wrote:
But then I recall all you have done, O Lord; I remember your wonderful deeds of long ago. They are constantly in my thoughts. I cannot stop thinking about your mighty works.
Both the Apostle Paul and the Psalmist recognized the mind game that unanswered prayer seems to be. However God doesn’t play mind games. It is a mental and emotional challenge for us and step of obedience for us to accept with trust His restrained grace for our good and His glory. Paul in his troubled time learned to rely on God. The Psalmist comprehended the importance of mentally reviewing how God had been faithful in the past and his thought patterns changed as a result. He was able to see that, this too, is still in the hands of the Almighty.
May that which concerns your heart be committed to His restrained grace, and may you experience that day when the tears are ended with the night and you know the full joy of the morning. Hang in there.