There’s a tug of war in the believer’s heart and one side wants what it wants when it wants. That’s the self. On the other side is the part of our heart that truly wants to please our Maker. On our journey with Christ spiritual growth means that the side that wants to please the Lord is gaining the upper hand. Oh, how our culture screams in the opposite direction! We hear a lot about “me.” “Me time,” “What’s best for me,” “What makes me happy.” We tend to hear and “I love Jesus” rather than “Jesus loves me.”
How do we know if we love Jesus? Is it primarily a feeling or an intellectual nod to the things He said or what we think about Him? Do we “love Jesus” because He is cool or fashionable? A writer named John in the Bible said it pretty plainly:
But those who obey God‘s Word truly show how completely they love Him. That is how we know we are living in Him. Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Jesus did. I John 2:5-6 (NLT)
Obedience and following His example…two things that do not come “naturally” to the human heart! It’s against our grain – contrary to our independent, seemingly “self-sufficient” nature! But why should it surprise us that loving God means to be obedient to Him and follow His example? Don’t we want this from our children? As parents we want what is best for them, and we recognize being able to take direction even if they don’t understand it is for their own benefit and protection. No! Do not put your finger in that light socket! No, do not run into the street! No, do not drink that orange scented shampoo!
As parents having our children simply say they love us but reject our instruction and example would indicate that there is no real love at all – just maybe a warm fuzzy affection, at times. God could have created us without a free will and made us completely obedient beings. But genuine love cannot exist without the ability to make a decision of our own free will – from the heart – to obey even when we don’t understand or feel like it.
The only reliable means of measuring our love for God is to examine whether we obey Him. – From Seeking Him by Nancy Leigh DeMoss and Tim Grissom
- The Strength of a Broken Heart (mercy4brokenhearts.com)